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BOOK REVIEW: An Idle Woman by Wendy Parkins

Published June 14th, 2024 by Legend Press
Historical Fiction, Biographical Fiction

Welcome to my review for this powerful and moving novel. Thank you Legend Press for sending me a copy of the book in exchange for my honest review.

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BOOK DESCRIPTION:

ONE WOMAN CLAIMS THE POWER TO TAKE CHARGE OF HER OWN DESTINY

1838, England: When eighteen-year-old Frances Dickinson impulsively marries Lieutenant John Geils, all her hopes for her future are quickly shattered as she finds there is much about her husband she did not know. A cruel and violent man, John keeps Frances in isolation on his family’s estate, while spending her fortune and preying upon their maids.

Frances yearns to break free from her marriage but the law is not on her side. Only when John’s abuse escalates can she set in motion a daring plan to secure her freedom.

A story of gaslighting, control and one woman’s fight, An Idle Woman is the true story behind one of the most sensational divorce trials of the nineteenth century.

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MY REVIEW:

Powerful, heartfelt and affecting, An Idle Woman tells the true story of one of Britain’s most sensational divorce trials. I had never heard of Frances Dickinson or this divorce trial, but as a domestic abuse survivor I felt compelled to read her story. Told in mixed media from multiple points of view, it took me a while to get into but once I’d got used to the writing style I couldn’t put it down. The addition of the historical note on marriage and divorce that the publisher enclosed with the book was fascinating, as was the author’s note at the end, and was helpful in allowing me to understand how society viewed women, marriage, and divorce at the time of this story. Wendy Parkins’ meticulous research is evident throughout the book and combines with her evocative writing to breathe life into the story and real-life people it portrays. Emotion drenches the pages and Parkin evoked such a visceral reaction from me that at times I wanted to scream at some of the characters as I witnessed the agony, manipulation and injustice that was suffered. 

Domestic abuse is not an easy subject to read about, and while this is obviously an unsettling and difficult read, it is an important one. As a fellow survivor of domestic abuse there were many times I felt like I was reading my own history on these pages. I know what it’s like to think you’re going crazy because someone is gaslighting you into believing that’s true, to walk on eggshells, and to think that if only you could be a better wife he might be a better husband. But despite all I went through, I know I was lucky. Because once I found the strength to leave my abuser I knew the law was on my side, that I could get a divorce, and that I could protect my son. Frances had none of those things available to her and I can only begin to imagine the terror and despair she must have felt, especially knowing that John would legally be entitled to their children. She was a remarkable woman and her strength, resilience and bravery were evident throughout.  The inclusion of so many of her diary entries and letters made it feel like we were really getting a glimpse of who Frances was, and it felt like she’d poured out her heart onto those pages. Frances’ story is one many of us will recognise, but what I’ve taken away from it is how she refused to lose herself, her children or her freedom and fought seemingly insurmountable odds to live a happy life. 

Captivating, moving and heartbreakingly real, this is a story that demands to be read. 

Rating: ✮✮✮✮✰

TW: Domestic abuse, gaslighting, coercive control. 

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MEET THE AUTHOR:

Wendy Parkins was born in Sydney and now lives in Dunedin, New Zealand. She has held academic posts at universities in Australia, New Zealand, and the UK, where she was Professor of Victorian Literature at the University of Kent until 2018. Her memoir, Every Morning, So Far, I’m Alive, was published in 2019. An Idle Woman is her first novel.

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